Love Spells from Mistress Tiger Pussy: LoveHugsDrugs


I'm LoveHugsDrugs, I'm a lover of love. Hopeful romantic that's been patient with Miss Universe for six years of being single. There is this man, let's call him Hulk, that I truly feel a deep connection with. I want him to want me just as I want him. The thing I think that's keeping him from going full speed in my direction is his worry that his family won't approve (due to me being black, and he being white).  He is a Virgo (August 27). I am a Virgo as well (September 18).

I know in my heart of hearts that we could have a very special life together.

If there is anything you could suggest I would be greatly appreciative.

Till then peace, love and hugs.


Dear LoveHugsDrugs,

Honey, you may think you’re all hopped up on love right now, but it sounds like all you’re scoring is worry—the primo stuff. Two Virgos can form a truly excellent, communicative match if they don’t let their worries get in the way. Love is the great unknown, and this may drive you both crazy, but chew some Valerian root and do your taxes together by candlelight, or whatever you Virgos do.

Of course it is always stressful, once you’re in love, to think about your lover’s parents entering the mix, but especially when there’s the fear of difference in race involved. It’s unjust, and you are justified in your concern. 

Let that practical mind do its thing for a minute, LHD. Whose worry is this? Has he given you cause to believe his parents won’t accept you? Or is this something you intuit? As Mama always said, kill ‘em with kindness. If that doesn’t win them over, that’s on them.

We all want to be wanted by whom we want—Cheap Trick said it best. But the hearts and minds of others are not for us to tamper with. Therefore, this is all about maintaining your personal sense of worth, and building back up your open, loving energy that you can radiate outwards. That will naturally influence and attract others towards you, including your Hulk and his Stan Lee and Jack Kirby (parents). You already know this is your strong suit, and this is probably what drew him to you in the first place. 

Are you getting chest pains or stomach aches when you think about this? It may be because your heart chakra is clogged. And since we cannot change the hearts or minds of others, the best we can do is fashion ourselves to be that which we seek. Therefore, you might try a spell to open that emporium of sweet pink goo, and your treasure box of light, the solar plexus. Think first of dispelling those gruesome worry knots, then filling your heart with enough loving energy to send out to your lover and his parents. 

MTP’s Queen of Hearts Spell

You will need: 
Chamomile tea in a yellow mug
Frankincense or jasmine incense
Rose petals
Rosemary plant
3 yellow candles, 3 pink
One sheet of pink construction paper, pair of scissors, and silver or white pen
A mojo pouch or bra
Amazonite (optional, for extra company)

Step 1:
To be performed on a Friday after a cleansing ritual.*

Make yourself some chamomile tea in your yellow mug and light the incense and the three yellow candles. The chamomile will of course relax and open you, and the yellow corresponds to your solar plexus and powers of communication. Imagine the sweet soothing liquid (with honey, if you like) trickling down and clearing the blockages from your throat chakra. You may also, after each sip, close your eyes, and give a contented sigh, audible enough to freak out your pets or neighbors. 

Step 2:

Light the pink candles and place and mix them with the yellow ones, mingling the love and communication energies. You got the fire, the water, the air, now prepare the earth element. In your cauldron or other fun mixing pot (a friend of mine uses an upturned seashell) mix the rose petals and rosemary. These symbolize love and loyalty. Additionally, the scent of rosemary enhances memory, so keeping this in your home and maybe carrying some whenever you meet your lover will help him remember why he loves you. As you mix these think about the first time you two met, and what initially drew you together.

Step 3:

Sit now in this fragrant, glowing circle on the floor. Imagine you are drawing energy from the earth up through your chakras, like each one is a spool on a bobbin, winding a thread of light around and around it. Begin with your root chakra at the base of your spine, and move on when you feel it tingling. Pause for extra attention on your solar plexus and heart until you feel warmth spreading throughout your core. After you’ve set your crown chakra ablaze, work your way back down, not cutting off but loosening the pull from the earth in each one. When you reach the bottom, place the palm of your hands on the floor and say, Blessed be. 

Step 4:

Now that you’ve cleared out and opened things up, it’s time to set your intention. 
On one small section of the pink paper, make a sigil using an affirming statement like, “Hulk’s parents will love me.” While you’re working out the design, envision the moment of first introduction, without fear, without any expectation other than kindness and acceptance. See yourselves all smiling and feeling immediately at ease with each other. When you have your design, recopy it on another section of the paper all nicey-nice and draw a heart around it. Now cut this out. Boom, Valentine-sigil.

Step 5:

With your chamomile teabag or dregs from your mug, add a few sprinkles to the Valentine. Then using a clockwise motion, pass it three times through the smoke from the incense. Now sprinkle the paper with the rose petals and rosemary, and drip wax from a yellow and a pink candle on top. While the wax is still warm, fold it once and carry it with an amazonite or other Virgo birthstone in a mojo pouch that hangs between your breasts or to your belly. Alternatively, and for more funsies, carry it around in your bra. (Bonus if it’s pink or white and lacy.)

Step 6:

Close your circle, including thanks to any entities you called upon like Aphrodite, and pinch out your fire. Any rose petals/rosemary that didn’t make it onto the paper can be put into a potpourri bag and kept under your pillow to let it work on the subconscious level. As is important to any ritual, make sure to utter the words, “with harm to none.”

Any of these steps are tweakable, according to your own sensibilities, but in any case it promises to be most potent. You’re already full of loving energy, so this should help unclog you of negative energy related to worry and distrust.

*Cleansing rituals can be performed in a bath filled with lavender or peppermint, and incorporating sage, quartz, and white or silver candles.

Much luck and love to you!

Goddess Bless,
MTP

 

 

Mistress Tiger Pussy is gladly accepting your questions about your relations with others of all genders and levels of intimacy. Email her at witchcraftmag@gmail.com with the subject line 'Love Spell, Your Name' for a personalized love spell. You may also include a pen name such as "Can't Get Off The Floor In Seattle" or "Open Heart Hubby" or whatever seems fitting, otherwise your response will not include your actual name.